Wednesday, July 28, 2010

A little update


Sad to say, both pup and Handler are feeling just a little 'sad-pup' and let down by life at the moment:

My back is getting better very slowly - with a lot of help from the physio and careful yoga and stretching. However, i am still on major pain-killers, rather lame and completely unable to romp about (or even get onto the bike...). i've had to cancel several planned bike trips and visits with Handler - and haven't even been able to drive down to see Him (or take up His offer of a long soak in the hot-tub) in over a month. He's been wonderful at calling and texting and keeping His pup's mood up, but He also has severe worries over job losses at work, and various let-downs with PC crashes and postponed trips...

So, neither pup not Handler are the happiest or most bouncey we've been.

And it got me brooding: the Man-and-Hound bond is far deeper than mere sex, but it is still a BDSM relationship, and so sex and sexuality *is* at part it's foundation; when that sexual spark fades through long-term ill health or old age, will their friendship be all that is left - and will it be enough to sustain them through  occassional nights sat nodding by the fire, reminiscing on wild walks and fun romps in their youth?



What *do* you do when a pup gets too old or infirm to play...?



1 comment:

  1. Sorry you're not feeling well, pup. Don't let yourself wallow --you will be back to your old self before you know it. Keep busy, keep doing your therapy and the time will go faster. Maybe your Handler could visit and scratch your belly or behind your ears or something. (That's what my pups like)! Hope you get better, soon! --bdsmjack

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